Almost all of our problems are people problems, whether it’s people in the past that have hurt us and wounded us, or people in our present life that are making our life troubled and difficult. There will always be people who hurt us, lies, laugh, mock, disrespects, criticize and offends us. Because people are not perfect, people make mistakes.
You will never meet a perfect person who won’t ever make mistakes, who will never hurt you or disappoint you, and you will never be one yourself. So what do you do then? How do you solve all of your people problems? You can’t just shut out all the people in your life, neither can you find that perfect person who will never hurt or disappoint you, and avoiding all human beings is not the answer even though it sometimes seems tempting.
God have made us dependent on each other. We all need each other, and each other’s services at one point or another, so it’s essential that we learn how to get along. We have to learn to not be offended or hurt, even though people give us a 100 reasons and chances every week to be so.
You have to understand that how people treats you say more about how they feel about themselves rather than how they feel about you. If people judge you for your mistakes it’s more likely that they are acting out of their own wounds and treating others based on how they have been treated in the past. People who are manipulating, dominating and controlling and abusive, are people have often been victims in the past and are now acting this way as a protection from ending up as a victim themselves again.
People that are being negative and that are criticizing you ,are people who have been criticized a lot themselves in the past. People who don’t want to see you happy, are unhappy people themselves. If people treat you bad, it’s more likely that they are having emotional issues that they need to deal with, rather than they really having a problem with you. The next time you are around somebody that are negative and difficult to be around, have compassion and don’t get offended or upset. But remember that they only reflect how they are feeling on the inside.
Everybody just wants to be loved, respected, believed in, cared for and complimented and acknowledged. Keep this in mind with every person you meet and you’ll have the right mindset that makes it easier to be around other people and avoid conflicts.
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