Your intuition is telling you that it is not a good idea to get back together with this friend or partner, but still you do it anyway, because of loneliness or insecurities, and you end up choosing bad company rather than being alone.
You know it’s not good to smoke, drink, or use drugs, but you do it anyway because of what others think you should do.
And maybe you have a certain group of friends that you are afraid to lose if you follow your own will and intuition?
You know you shouldn’t lend money to a friend who always borrows and borrows but never pays you back and doesn’t really seem to care. But you end up doing it again and again anyway, and this is because you are not listening to your own inner voice, but this other person’s voice.
If you had listened to your own inner voice, you would know that it is not wrong or selfish saying no to this person, and maybe help this person stand on his/her own two feet.
Sometimes the best help we can give others is saying no to them, forcing them to change their lives, hopefully for the better.
It’s different saying no to a poor man or lady living on the street because we do have a responsibility to help those who have nothing. But we don’t have a responsibility to help other people waste our money, which we could use on people who really need it.
You are allowed to say no when somebody wants to borrow money to party or buy new clothes or gadgets that you can barely afford yourself. When people are starving or need your help to survive, you should say yes to help them.
When you learn to know yourself and listen to God and your intuition, it will be easier to make choices that are more right for you. Learn to listen to your intuition, and learn to make wiser choices.
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