Don’t Compare Other Relationships With Your Own.
What many men and women do when they get into a relationship is that they start comparing it with others. This is a mistake that causes many problems and unrealistic expectations in relationships.
You can’t expect your partner to be like somebody else, you can only accept them for what they are; if you can’t, then you shouldn’t be with them at all. The same goes for your partner’s expectations about you. They can’t expect you to be something you’re not or try to change you. And you shouldn’t try to change yourself for your partner, unless it’s positive changes for you both.
The right kind of relationship, where both are able to be happy, is based on their attitudes. It depends on whether their attitude is a “what can you do to make me happy?” attitude or a “what can I do to make you happy?” attitude. It depends on whether their attitudes are selfish or selfless.
You should be with a partner who allows you to be all that you can be and loves you for you and encourages you to be yourself; you should feel comfortable with being yourself in the relationship.
You shouldn’t have to try to be somebody you’re not to maintain a relationship, or have to change the other person to be able to be happy. You will never be happy this way, and the relationship won’t last for long.
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