How To Know That You’re Ready For A Relationship

You’ll learn to attract a loving partner when you’ve learned to love yourself.
Many men and women think they’re ready for having a relationship and to make a commitment to somebody. But to be ready to have a good and stable relationship with someone else, you first of all have to be able to have a good and loving relationship with yourself. You have to work on yourself and clear out and heal any wounds from past relationships.

Don’t date someone because of loneliness, because of the need of feeling worthy or valuable, or to be happy. Learn to love yourself and to be happy yourself, to be able to enjoy solitude, and to be alone. Stop searching for love in all the wrong places. Start to look for it in the right place, within yourself.
If you can do this, then maybe you are ready for dating, and then you can date someone who is actually right for you, not someone you date to fill the emptiness and unhappiness inside of you that only you can fill. You have to find yourself and love yourself before you find someone else to love.


Don’t Bring The Past Into The Future


Don’t bring past relationships into future relationships, love like you’ve never been hurt, and expect your new relationship to be better.
Your new relationship shouldn’t suffer because of your past ones; make sure that you have cleared out any issues from the past before you enter into a new relationship.
Relationships have a way of forming us, and if we end a relationship, we should spend some time in solitude regaining our individual personality, identity, and any values that the relationship may have changed. We should take our time to heal any wounds that need to heal. And when you’re ready, enter into the relationship with a “what can I do to make you happy, and how can I make your life better?” attitude.

When we’re determined to enter into a relationship for the right reasons, we attract the right kind of loving relationship.







A Land Of Milk And Honey

Deuteronomy 8:6
Therefore, you shall keep the commandments of the LORD your God, to walk in His ways and to fear Him.
For the LORD your God is bringing you into a good land, a land of brooks of water, of fountains and springs, flowing forth in valleys and hills; a land of wheat and barley, of vines and fig trees and pomegranates, a land of olive oil and honey; a land where you will eat food without scarcity, in which you will not lack anything; a land whose stones are iron, and out of whose hills you can dig copper. When you have eaten and are satisfied, you shall bless the LORD your God for the good land which He has given you.

If you choose to believe and be righteous and pleasing in God’s eyes, maybe you’ll get the opportunity to go to the land flowing with milk and honey. A place where the grass is green, the sky is blue, and the weather is cool and comfortable. A place where you don’t have to suffer, be miserable, depressed, or unhappy, a place where you see goodness, righteousness, peace, and joy. A place where you lack nothing, where you never have to starve or thirst, where you have everything you need at all times. A place that is like Paradise and Eden, a place called Heaven.







Isaiah 26:2:
Open the gates that the righteous nation may enter, the nation that keeps faith.

Isaiah 56:1:
This is what the LORD says: “Maintain justice and do what is right, for my salvation is close at hand and my righteousness will soon be revealed.”

Isaiah 46:13:
I am bringing my righteousness near, it is not far away; and my salvation will not be delayed. I will grant salvation to Zion, my splendor to Israel.

Deuteronomy 26:15:
Look down from Your holy habitation, from heaven, and bless Your people Israel, and the ground which You have given us, a land flowing with milk and honey, as You swore to our fathers.
This day the LORD your God commands you to do these statutes and ordinances. You shall therefore be careful to do them with all your heart and with all your soul. You have today declared the LORD to be your God, and that you would walk in His ways and keep His statutes, His commandments and His ordinances, and listen to His voice.
The LORD has today declared you to be His people, a treasured possession, as He promised you, and that you should keep all His commandments; and that He will set you high above all nations which He has made, for praise, fame, and honor; and that you shall be a consecrated people to the LORD your God, as He has spoken.

Isaiah 60:1:
Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord rises upon you. See, darkness covers the earth and thick darkness is over the peoples, but the Lord rises upon you and his glory appears over you.
Nations will come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your dawn. Lift up your eyes and look about you: All assemble and come to you; your sons come from afar, and your daughters are carried on the arm.
Then you will look and be radiant, your heart will throb and swell with joy; the wealth on the seas will be brought to you, to you the riches of the nations will come. Herds of camels will cover your land, young camels of Midian and Ephah. And all from Sheba will come, bearing gold and incense and proclaiming the praise of the Lord.

All Kedar’s flocks will be gathered to you, the rams of Nebaioth will serve you; they will be accepted as offerings on my altar, and I will adorn my glorious temple.
Who are these that fly along like clouds, like doves to their nests? Surely the islands look to me; in the lead are the ships of Tarshish, a bringing your sons from afar, with their silver and gold, to the honor of the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, for he has endowed you with splendor. Foreigners will rebuild your walls, and their kings will serve you. Though in anger I struck you, in favor I will show you compassion.
Your gates will always stand open, they will never be shut, day or night, so that men may bring you the wealth of the nations— their kings led in triumphal procession. For the nation or kingdom that will not serve you will perish; it will be utterly ruined. The glory of Lebanon will come to you, the pine, the fir and the cypress together, to adorn the place of my sanctuary; and I will glorify the place of my feet.
The sons of your oppressors will come bowing before you; all who despise you will bow down at your feet and will call you the City of the Lord, Zion of the Holy One of Israel.

Although you have been forsaken and hated, with no one traveling through, I will make you the everlasting pride and the joy of all generations. You will drink the milk of nations and be nursed at royal breasts. Then you will know that I, the Lord, am your Savior, your Redeemer, the Mighty One of Jacob. Instead of bronze I will bring you gold, and silver in place of iron.
Instead of wood I will bring you bronze, and iron in place of stones. I will make peace your governor and righteousness your ruler.

No longer will violence be heard in your land, nor ruin or destruction within your borders, but you will call your walls Salvation and your gates Praise. The sun will no more be your light by day, nor will the brightness of the moon shine on you, for the Lord will be your everlasting light, and your God will be your glory.






You Have Authority And Power Over Evil

1 John 4:4:
You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.

God has given us the power and ability to overcome the evil in this world with good; the godly powers in us are stronger than the wickedness of this world. Any difficulty or evil we experience in this world, we can overcome if we follow God’s Word and guidance. No matter how hard, painful, or difficult the things we are experiencing, we can overcome it if we use God as our shield and strength.

You need the Strength of the Holy Spirit to succeed and have victory, because that’s what God works through, and you strengthen it by spending daily time with God by reading, listening to, and writing His Word and by spending time in prayer.

When we have faith and focus on God, His Word, pray, help, and do good deeds, we are strengthening our Spirit and the Power that comes with it.

Luke 10:17:
The seventy returned with joy, saying, “Lord, even the demons are subject to us in Your name.” And He said to them, “I was watching Satan fall from heaven like lightning.” Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing will injure you.
Nevertheless do not rejoice in this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice that your names are recorded in heaven.”

Philippians 1:27:
Only conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or remain absent, I will hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel; in no way alarmed by your opponents—which is a sign of destruction for them, but of salvation for you, and that too, from God.
For to you it has been granted for Christ’s sake, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for His sake, experiencing the same conflict which you saw in me, and now here to be free in me.

Romans 8:17:
Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.






Be Active While Waiting On Your Miracle

Many people sit and wait on God for Him to fix their lives, but sometimes it’s really God who is waiting on them to start fixing their own lives before He intervenes. God likes people who are actively trying to improve themselves and their lives while they are still trusting and waiting on Him to fulfill His promise and give them their miracle and breakthrough.

Every day you should ask yourself what can I do today that will improve my life for the better? What can I do to get one step closer to fulfilling my mission and purpose here on earth. What does God want me to do and focus on today?

After you have spent time with God and figured out what He wants you to do, then you can actively start doing that. And every day you actively do your part, you get one step closer to your miracle and breakthrough.

Staying passive will not give you what you want, but doing what you can with what you have now will get you closer to your dreams and visions.

Miracles usually comes when you need it the most; and when you feel like you’re close to a break down you are really closer to your breakthrough. Stay active, trust God and the right things will happen at the right time.






Your Present Situation Is Not Your Final Destination

Just because you’re in a bad place and because things are difficult and not the way you want them to be, it doesn’t mean that you’re a bad person or that you’re not on the right track. Often times it means that you are supposed to grow in certain areas before you go to the next level. Your present situation is not you final destination, there are better days ahead for you and your loved ones.

If you’re in a dark place it’s most likely because you’re called to be a light there. Maybe You’re the one God is calling to make great changes in the place you are right now.

Don’t use your time complaining, worrying and thinking about the bad things, use your energy to think about solutions and how you can make things better. Don’t complain or be scared of dark places or difficult situations, instead shine your light brightly and let God use you to make positive changes.






Using Your Natural Gifts And Talents


“Your talent is God’s gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God.”

Leo Buscaglia

Every day when you wake up you should ask yourself: “How can I use and develop my natural gifts and talents today?” “What can I do to improve myself and what can I do today that will make me better than I was yesterday?” “What can I do today to help somebody else improve their lives?”

Your talents and blessings are given to you for a reason, it’s there to be used and shared with others. You are blessed, so that you can be a blessing to others.

Many people claim that they don’t have any gifts or talents, but that’s simply not true. Everybody has something they are good at, something they like to do more than other things. You can be gifted with a natural ability to be good at encouraging and motivating other people. Maybe you’re great at making delicious meals and knowing just the right ingredients to make it taste just right. Or maybe you’re great with numbers and accounting. Perhaps you’re really good at learning languages and have a natural teaching ability? Everybody is good at something, that includes You.

Well how can I use these natural talents and abilities to bless and help others? Some may ask.

If you’re good at cooking, then make your delicious and loving meals and share some with homeless people. Or maybe there’s somebody who need voluntary cooks for homeless people somewhere in your town?

If you’re good at motivating people, then do that as much as you can.

If you’re good with numbers and accounting, maybe there’s a ministry in your area that need your help and service?

If you’re good at learning languages and teaching, then why not sign up to be a voluntarily language teacher to people who need it? There’s always somebody who are in need of you gift, your talent and your service. There’s only one of you, and only you can be best at being you, and do best what you do.

We are all equal in Christ, we all have equally important gifts, and we should all be grateful for whatever gift we have been given. If you use your gifts and blessings you get to keep them.

Roman 12:6

We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.

1 Peter 4:10

Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms.